Hi y’all! I am back with another blog post today! Today, I wanted to write about body positivity and how important it is to love yourself with all your flaws.
Every other person is affected by body shaming now because of beauty standards that have been created on social media. I was affected by it too. Everyone on Instagram that is considered perfect has a flat tummy, perfect bodies and the perfect looking skin. According to society, a person looks pretty when they have a perfect body but like, let’s not let society decide whether we’re pretty or not. People don’t get to decide how you feel about yourself because you’re amazing and it doesn’t matter whether you’re brown or have thick thighs or you’re fat or you’re skinny.
People will keep calling you names, they’ll keep talking about you but guess what? IT DOESN’T MATTER BECAUSE WHAT THEY SAY ARE JUST WORDS AND THEY ARE WORDS TO BRING YOU DOWN. Trust me when I say this that the moment you start loving yourself is the moment that their words won’t matter to you. I know how hard it can be and how hard it can get but trust me, you just have to stay strong. Be proud of what you have and be happy and enjoy what you have because that ish is a blessing! You’re beautiful no matter what other people think, you’re beautiful because how you think and you’re beautiful with all your flaws. Thick thighs and tummy rolls make you the way you are and guess what that is? That is perfect! Embrace your own beauty and be yourself because being yourself is more important.
Loving yourself is really important. Learn to put yourself first and yourself. It’s okay if you want to change the way you look but it’s important to love yourself as you are changing yourself too! I hope this helps at least one of you. I LOVE YOU ALL! PEACE!
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